We unpack the IFS approach to understanding addiction- not as a battle to be won, but as a system of protective parts trying their best to keep us safe.
If you’ve ever said “Why do I do this?” or felt stuck in cycles you can’t explain, this episode is for you!
The client and I explore the cognitive dissonance between knowing alcohol is harmful and still being drawn to the perceived benefits of “healthier” wine options.
Through mindful observation, she discovers how to navigate her evening rituals, experiment with alternatives, and approach her relationship with alcohol from a place of curiosity rather than judgment.
I coach a client grappling with alcohol’s instant relief and long-term regrets to uncover the underlying emotions driving her drinking and find genuine ways to transition from stress.
You'll actually hear me coaching someone through a challenging moment, offering a real glimpse into the process.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on both episodes, as your feedback is always so valuable to me.
We explore some powerful topics, including Internal Family Systems and parts work.
I think you’ll find a lot of value in our discussion.
Sam, Ellie, and I talk about IFS and I lead listeners through an experiential meditation at the end.
If this unique approach to coaching resonates with you, I invite you to take advantage of a free Discovery call with me.
We got into the specifics about my journey and touched on some of the ideas of IFS.
In this episode, I talked about:
My outlook on FOMO.
How journaling played a significant role in my journey.
How self-compassion, curiosity, and vulnerability were part of my foundation.
Matt and Amy were incredible hosts, creating such a warm and welcoming atmosphere that I felt instantly at ease.
This conversation allowed me to share my story for the first time.
It was a powerful moment of vulnerability, reflection, and connection—something I’ll never forget. I’m so grateful for the opportunity to dive deep into the heart of my journey.
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All Rights Reserved.